” I don’t think you know what your asking. When you love someone you dont just accept who they are right now.
You accept who they were back then. The people they used to love and care and then lose.
All these things were part for who they are.
You don’t just accept the now. You are asking for their past. And as much as you might not like some of it.
Every bit of those ” unlikeable ” things had to happen to make them who they are right now. Everyone has a past they rather not know. No one would want to taint the perfect image of the person they love.
That’s why it’s so important for you to accept it. If anyone but you could do it, then it wouldn’t be called love, would it? You gotta have the full package.”